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Why should people need to be diplomat


Modern Rules Of Diplomacy That Everyone Needs To Know. Why people need to be diplomatic?

Diplomacy helps to maintain better relationships in typical circumstances by creating a win-win situation. Practically, we can learn diplomatic skills from the foreign diplomats. 

diplomatic woman

Let's go ahead and see why diplomacy is an art that everyone should learn and how one can practice in their everyday life.

How to be diplomatic?


  1. Speech making v/s conversation:

Firstly, structure how to narrate based on the situation. Use the words with moderate impact that mostly sound positive. It is important to sync your body language with your narration.


  1. Decide between what to say or how to say:

Research says that your words communicate only up to 7%, your tone and modulation contributes up-to 38% and the major part, that is 55% of the communication is done by movements of face, hands etc...

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So, Understand the context and moderate the communication. Make your best attempt to avoid misunderstandings depending on the context - formal or informal 


  1. Learn to Listen:

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Listening shows compassion for the person. One must know that understanding is not possible without thorough listening. This in turn makes the further conversation uninteresting and unrelated.


  1. Learn through a favorite speaker:

Follow the speeches from your favorite speaker. Observe the tiny differences between command and confidence. Get to know how relaxed and natural the speech is. 

Public speaking

Now comes the practice. Create your own style from the things that you have learnt. Avoid  parroting the person as your goal is to be authentically diplomatic, not an imitating artist.


  1. Diplomacy - keep it in moderation:

Undoubtedly, it pays off to be a diplomat. It is an art that everyone should learn.

diplomacy in limit

But, being an over diplomat is not good. It makes people consider you as an unwelcoming  person with no strong opinion. In the long run you may have to miss out on genuine people in your way.


Advantages of diplomacy:

  • 🙌You seem like a strong person to your enemies - so, they remain at the bay
  • 🤝Friendly settlement of disputes 
  • 💝Eventually, saves relationships

I hope you will practice diplomacy in your everyday situations. Please let us know via your comments about more ways to become a diplomat.


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